Speed Dating???

Hello Curvy world.  It is I…Christi Love.  How are you doing?  Well I am doing better.  The unicorns are much happier that I am not moping around.  I have ventured out of the castle and went to a speed dating event.  Yes a speed dating event.  I took a friend with me and she found the event that was at Hard Rock Casino and Hotel in Hollywood, Fl.  The club that it was held at was called Passion Night Club…..hmmm with that name you would have thought that some type of magic would have been popping off in there…..Nope!

The event was called Lock and Key and basically all the men were given a key and the ladies had a lock.  You mix and mingle and walk up to perfect strangers and see if their key unlocks your lock.  It was a great concept to break the ice and start conversations with individuals.  But like every fairytale there are draw backs.

The age range was 27 thru 47.  That is a twenty year age difference.  That right there is a recipe for disaster.  Look world.  I am a 42(as of 11/30) year old curvy girl.  I already have strikes against me.   So you can imagine how I felt when the men ages ran from 47 looking like they lied and were 57 and 27 year olds looking for a sugar momma.  Don’t get me started with the women.  I saw a hand full of mature women with a high age range of 27 to 30.  And in the total attendance I can say that there was a total of 5 curvy (plus) women there.  It was a sad night ladies…..a very sad night.

As I looked in the sea that is called the dating pool.  I was so let down.  This is not how it was portrayed on Sex in the City.  I was supposed to be Carrie with a Mr. Big in the background and a Aden building me a bookshelf.  Not here looking at an older man trying to pick up someone who could very well be his daughter.  It almost made me wants to call the ex and tell him maybe we can try and make this work.

Then it happened.  A guy came up and he stuck his key into my lock and turned his key……..and the shit didn’t open and I looked at my girlfriend and said… ”Let’s go.  I am hungry.”  LOL

So this speed dating event has showed me that I am not alone out there in the world.  There are other single people searching.  Getting outside of their comfort zone to test the waters.  I just think that I have to do a little more research and find a better speed dating event that centers around people more my age range and looking for a curvy chick like me.

So I bid you fare thee well.  Till I come to you with another tale of #datingwhilecurvy.  This Christi Love and I approve this message!